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December 2nd, 2008 at 10:46 pm

So Hubby and I decided earlier in the year (after the whole moving, holiday, wedding madness) that we'd be better prepared this year and save cash for it.

We each saved a birthday fund for ourselves...and together saved a Christmas fund.

We didn't go on any shopping trips pretty much the entire year.

So finally Thanksgiving weekend was here! We spent Thanksgiving at home putting up decorations and having dinner. Well we spent it at home with the exception of a CVS trip. I spent 16 dollars and got 85.98 back in rewards!! :-)

Friday we went out for my first Black Friday experience. We didn't do any big department stores like Walmart or Target. We hit Office Max and I treated myself to a flash memory camcorder (60 bux) and the rest was Christmas gifts. Then we went to Micheal's Crafts, I only spent 20 for some scrapbooking supplies. Next it was on to CompUSA so hubby could get a few computer parts, 20 bux there also.

Saturday we took a road to trip to a mall about an hour away to treat ourselves to our birthday shopping. Hubby did awesome and bought basically a new casual wardrobe for around 150 and I did the same. We also bought some more xmas gifts.

Sunday was my birthday so hubby so kindly bought me a new winter coat (a wool pea coat for 75 dollars marked down from 200!) and took me to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner (mmm my fav).

Monday we ran errands to renew tags on all three cars (hubby still has his first car) and renew my license, grand total 143.00. Next it was walmart, grand total 45 dollars. And finally the eye doctor.

Ugh we were in the eye doctor for 3 hours! sheesh. Anyways, I have glasses but I don't need contacts, so I picked out a pair of new frames. Grand Total: 145.00 after insurance payment.

So (sorry it took forever to get to the point)...I know that we saved up for this whole event but I can't help but feel guilty for spending all the money. TONS of expenses have come our way as they always do the holiday season.

The home association fee, termite bond, license tags, drivers license renewal, new glasses for me, new contacts for hubby and expenses that come along with family visiting for the holidays all came up this month.

It will all be covered it will just be a tad bit tight.

Do you feel guilty about spending money on yourself?

6 Responses to “Guilty”

  1. Ms. Pearl Says:
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    yes yes yes! I feel very guilty spending money on myself. But glad you had a good weekend. Your coat sounds pretty. I love the cheesecake factory too...thank goodness the nearest one to my house is two hours away! Happy Birthday!

  2. fruitbowlk Says:
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    I use to feel very guilty on spending money on myself but it's getting much better I just brought myself an early x-mas present(gps) and I didn't feel a bit of guilt.

  3. whitestripe Says:
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    i used to feel guilty until i had to slap myself (metaphorically speaking) and realise that I work, I save, I rent, I see friends, I have family who live miles away, I eat, I call people, I use the internet, I enjoy clothes, I like good quality makeup, I believe in looking after myself, I love organic produce and well made food etc etc.

    Bascially I have come to the conclusion that everything is ok in moderation. Now I feel a lot less guilty, and as a result I am saving much much more and spending less. Go figure!

  4. Koppur Says:
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    LOL I don't think I feel guilty enough about spending money on myself and that is why money is always tight with us. I need to work on that; want to pass your guilt over to me? *smile*

    Sounds like you got some GREAT deals though, and you had saved up for it, so that's an extra bonus.

  5. fern Says:
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    I've been wanting to get a nice wool peacoat, too, but my problem is it's hard to find winter coats that are petite-sized. the sleeves are always too long. With tops i can avoid that by buying a lot of 3/4 length sleeves or sometimes rolling up the sleeves, but you can't do that with a coat.

  6. dmontngrey Says:
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    Oh yes, I have the worst time spending money on myself! I did just bite the bullet and jump into a black friday online fiasco to buy myself something. We'll see how that turns out, but I don't plan on regretting my purchase - for a change!

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